I’ve decided to start a new blog to share my personal journey and experiences at a difficult time in our lives. You can find it at: www.lucyslight.co.uk The reason for this new blog is a recent change in my health.…
This week it has been Dying Matters Week 2019; 13th-19th May. The theme this year was “Are We Ready?” and what a great theme it is, as we really aren’t ready and we need to be. Dying Matters Awareness Week…
This week it’s #OpenUpHospiceCare week, run by Hospice UK. A successful campaign that seeks to break down myths surrounding hospice care, raise awareness of the amazing work of hospices and to secure support for hospices and encourage communities to get…
I am disabled. I am covered in tubes, bags and scars. I am perfectly imperfect, not what society defines as beautiful. I don’t feel beautiful. However, I am comfortable with myself and my body. I do not resent the way…
I recently wrote a piece for the Courageous Parents Network about living with a life-limiting/life threatening illness, palliative care, end of life planning and quality of life. It's a brief summary of my journey since becoming ill, the support I've had,…
Merry Christmas to my wonderful followers and friends You not only support and care for me, but you have helped to bring my message and my experiences to a greater and greater audience. We're up to 67,000 views already, in under…
It’s that time of year again: it’s Christmas time. Where has 2014 gone? It seems like yesterday that mum took the decorations down, and now they’re going to go back up again. Christmas is a difficult time for many people for…
I look out of my windowAnd stare up at the skyI wonder if you’re up thereOh sweet old dog of mineIn blew just one white featherA sign as if to sayNever fear, for I am hereI never went awayFrom my…
Saturday 30th August 2014To my beautiful mum, Thank you so much for all you do. You keep me alive each day physically and mentally, giving up your life to save mine. You gave me life in the beginning, and continue to…
Recently there was a programme on Channel 4 called My Last Summer, about five terminally ill strangers who get together to prepare for the best death possible. We laughed with them, cried with them, watched them deteriorate and watched as…